Preparation for wedding

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Today is a wedding preparation day for me. I went to my bridal shop, SG Bridal at JB in the morning. First part will be the trying of my gown. Before I tried out the wedding gown, we went to had our lunch at Pizza Hut.

 This is more like a delivery pickup store.

 They dun really call pizza hut here but PHD (pizza hut delivery) but it does sounds like permanent head damage to me. :P

It was a wrong choice because after eating fattening food, I will of course look fatter in my gown. This is shit!!
 I immediately want this when I tried on. I was a nice korean style which I don’t need to worry about my fat tummy!

 Nice evening gown too. But it looked quite mature so I didn’t really like it. But the cutting is great.

 This was my confirmed evening gown. Honestly, this colours sucks! But there isn’t much choice for me. :(

 This is actually the wedding gown I tried before I signed the package so yes, I got this for my malaysia wedding. :)

On the whole, SG Bridal is very kind to let me take photos of my final gown, they are patient too. I tried like more than 30 pieces of gown and these final gown was really the last few for me. Though I was not very satisfied with variety of my size gown but I was not disappointed by them. They were mostly more of a classic gown so it was nice. They showed great customer service and is professional. I am happy that they are not in with me during changing. I was afraid to have stranger to change with me. They told me specifically how to change and when I am okay, they will help me tie or hold the back up. My friend who went Venus told me the staff went to change with her and she was wearing un-glam undies that day so I was happy with their service on the whole.

Then later in the evening, I went back Singapore and went to try out my makeup artist, Sanlia. I swear she got the best makeup skill I ever seen. Trust me, everyone said my makeup is so natural and flawless. Of course, the hair she did received lots of positive comments. I strongly recommend her if anyone needs a natural, sweet wedding makeup.

 She only put one layer of lashes for testing. she will put another one more on my actual day.

This hair was requested by me but it doesn’t look good on me so in the end I asked Sanlia to do hairdo based on my face and her recommendation was fantastic. I never knew I can look so pretty with hair all tied up.

 For my morning hair.

 For my evening hair

 The side of my evening hair

Nice right? I am not sponsored to write this review for Sanlia but I really do think she did a great job. Honestly, I was kind of a bit scared because I am the first among my friends to get married so I do not have recommendation for makeup artist and I found her online. I mean makeup plays the most important job to make a bride pretty so I am afraid that she might be not be good. I heard of many stories of makeup artist gone wrong.

Sanlia was quiet (and pretty) and and like her makeup style and hair. She almost didn’t talk to me during her makeup which make me a bit worried of the look. I have serious short sighted-ness and I couldn’t really see what is my look until I was finished.

She only talked to me twice during the beginning when she asked me what type of look I want. I told her a natural one. Then for the hair she asked me what type of hair I liked. She did for me but the hair turned up to be not nice so I asked her to do for me based on her creativity.

I will post more of my wedding photo soon.

*Though entry was set to blogged on the 28th Feb 2012, It was only published on the 9th September 2012 as I was lazy to edit the photos.


Stressed

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I should be studing for my mid term later but i am using a bit of toilet break to blog out. Blogging is my form of destressing.  I am getting married next month.  To be exactly, i am getting married in 19 day’s time. Guess what? I had my worst day yesterday!!

I broke down on the reception desk and cried for the whole 15 minutes before the guy ask his superior. He was initially very firm in not giving me a chance but i did have vaild reasons. Honestly, i did not have to get married so early. Kk’s granny pass away so i have to follow the customs to get married within 100 days and this is when everything went haywire.

I am confident to prepare my wedding if i had the America time. But the fact is i dun have. I had to work, study and prepare for mid term. I had to fit the planning of my wedding in the minimum free time that is left. I really think Kk hasn’t been a great help to me at all. I dun like his excuse that he is unfamiliar of the customs here. I mean can’t he do some homework online, i also do not know the customs and i google it out. He can’t be busier then me right? He is only working. Yes, i am bitter that he land me into this shit and why can’t we just ROM?

My mum is also another problematic one. She can always get me agitated with her rubbish. Yes, i know she is my mum but recently she is really causing me lots of trouble. I really do not want to upset her with the customs but she always give me suprises to what she want. I mean shouldn’t her decide on what she want? She will always say up to us but the fact is SHE WANTS THEM

The only person that is helpful is my dad. He is aleays talking to my mum. He is alwats the one “forcing” my mum to make decisions. He even tell me that i could have his room till my wedding just bec i joking say that he did not keep his promise to let me have my own room after my O level. Honestly, i have given up hope to get my own room after poly so whether or not i get is just like a bonus to me. But I am stilll touched and appreciated hia action esp feeling so helpless yesterday. I did told him what happen yesterday just now but i avoid my crying part. 

After ranting do much, still have to say i love my mum very much but really hope she can be more “随便”
to make my life better bec this is the most stressful time of my life.

Special thanks to all my friends and my twitter friends for the support. I did not rant so much at my facebook bec of some reasons, i really appreciated those who give me the jia yous at a time like this and i am fine now. Not to forget the Singapore ROM for giving me an exception bec i know even if with the vaild reasons, it is still subjected to their considerations. Thanks for making my wedding perfect.


Reason that I am upset yesterday

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I guess Kk doesn’t know, does he?

Nope, I am not angry because he did not accompany me. Maybe the fact that he was not here is a contributing reason why I am angry. As I mentioned in my previous entry, Kk’s granny passed away last week and I have been good to not disturb him.

Let’s just start from the sparks that pissed me off. Yesterday, about 4pm I saw a reply from Kk stating his brother Toji will be going back to KL.

Guess what time he called me? 5.48pm!! (Great, got time to reply the comment on facebook, no time to call me and reply my facebook?)

Despite me posting a super mushy and touching massage yesterday morning, he choose not to reply me but reply my honey’s post that Toji is on the way back. Am I just invisible to him? There are 11 people who like my touching massage except him. There are 2 comments which are also not from him.

It makes me wonder what am I to him?

We are getting married like next month. I feel really upset that I am not his priority especially yesterday. Even after he called me, he was talking to someone else on the other side of the phone. I was super fed up with him then and of course I dun sound good too. Instead of calming me down or sweet talk me, he show me his “good” attitude and hang up the phone. It was then I teared after he hang up in Woodlands Interchange. I dunno why I teared, maybe the stress is too much for me recently. I need to study, work, prepare for last min wedding and dun disturb him.

When I reached home, I decided to take a nap while waiting for the rest of my family to be back. Then something happen which I dun want to say but if u are in my twitter, u would have know what happened with them and in the end, I went to watch a movie alone “The wedding dairy”. I know I am crazy to push myself into more misery. I just want to make myself sad and cry in cinema but I didn’t. I guess I grew stronger and I tell myself I will NEVER let myself suffer this kinda of thing ever again. Why must I be sad to a man that dun feel the same as me? After understanding this, I felt a sense of calm. Even though deep down, I still hope he will wish me Happy Valentine Day before the end of yesterday. But I guess he was sleeping then.. (See below to know why I said that)

During the days he is at home, he called me everyday at 11 plus pm to tell me how much he miss me but yet it was yesterday I feel that they are just words. His action speaks everything and yes I am having second thoughts about spending the rest of my life with this guy. In addition, for the first time in my life, my anger did not lessen after a night’s of sleep and felt even more bitter. Honestly, I don’t blog about family things because I don’t want to hurt the relationship with my blog. But if not for them, I should have married last year and not suffer like how I am now. You can never blame me on this part because it is not my fault, yet I have to bear with all the rubbish.

Oh ya, he did sms me 2 sms (exact same words):
1st massage @9.33pm

Darling… I up bus leh…. see u tomorrow….

2nd massage @10.06pm

Darling…. I want to sleep leh… I love u….:-)

See what I mean, he don’t even know I am upset. Despite me not replying him!! Trying to act normal and think I forgot of my anger? The second massage make me even more pissed. He can fancy still tell me that he want to sleep then add a “I love u”. This got to be the best massage of the year! To me, it meant, “I slap you and said I am sorry.”


康凯的阿嬷走了

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Today entry is another personal entry and I decided to blog in Chinese. I can write my emotions better in chinese than English. So those who don’t understand, please forgive me.

昨天下午4点,Kk打给我。但是我没听,因为电话放静音了。我5点多回电话时,就得知阿嬷不行了。心情真的非常的不好,因为我刚过的新年才看到阿嬷,他还好好的。怎么会这样呢?听说是细菌感染,因为有很多的未知,又不敢问Kk。他异常的冷静让我不安以及害怕,我知道家人对Kk的重要性。


昨晚我上完课,正在下车回家时,我望着月亮。想起了星期一的月亮,是一样圆的。。。这个月亮是我昨晚拍的~

突然有种感慨,这就是人生。月亮会圆,会缺,然后又圆,在缺。一直在重复的,这是自然的定义。所谓人生就是生老病死,人往往在这世界上就会有遗憾,我后悔没有跟阿嬷说多一点话。这世界上如果有“如果”,我先在会说希望跟阿嬷说多一点话,认识阿嬷多一点。但是,这世界是没有如果的。这也是为什么我从不认为朋友跟家人是麻烦的,因为我知道他们是我人生的一部分。

老实说,我跟阿嬷真的不算太亲。我是一个来自新加坡的城市女孩,而阿嬷是一个在鱼村的婆婆。我们语言是个很大的障碍,我前几次去他们家,阿嬷都已一直找我聊天。可是我们就像一只鸡一只鸭,彼此不知道怎么聊下去。虽然我在工地做工,可是他们的福建就是和我们不一样。我自认阿嬷很喜欢我,因为他总爱用它那疲倦的双眼看着我,想跟我聊聊但又觉得我听不懂。

我仔细的找了找阿嬷的照片,发觉我真的没有拍阿嬷。唯一的几张就是Kk二弟结婚是拍的。


阿嬷抱着Nikki的 Money Boy


这真的是阿嬷唯一最漂亮的照片的。阿嬷虽然你走了,可是您留给子孙最美好的记忆。安心的上路吧。

献上蕭煌奇-阿嬤的話


美人專門Bijinsenmon Product Launch

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I am not sure if anyone knows this brand, I don’t know it but I went to google it few days ago. Apparently, it is a slimming product that acts like a mask. You can just apply them like mask on your leg, belly, face and arm. It comes in 4 types of mask for the respective parts of your body that needs to be slim. I actually bought the belly mask but I am quite unsure how to use it, so I will try to attend if possible.

Confirm Trading have invited Christine Ng (伍詠薇) who is also the spokesperson for this product on 18th February 2012 at Guardian Paragon for the launch of this product.

To celebrate this launch, the first 30 who bought the product can present the receipt to stand a chance to take a photo with Christine Ng. In addition, the next first 150 customers that present the receipts can get to win more prizes in the lucky dip!

If you want to attend, do feel free to sign up the event at the facebook or just show up on the 18th.

Confirm Trading is selling them as the prices show below:

  1. Bijinsenmon Arm Slimming Mask 3 pairs/box: $39
  2. Bijinsenmon Leg Slimming Mask 3 pairs/box: $39
  3. Bijinsenmon Face Slimming Mask 6 pcs/box: $45
  4. Bijinsenmon Belly Slimming Mask 4 pcs/box: $49

This is much cheaper to get from Sasa which cost like US$50!!!

Do visit Tiphaine’s blog for more info of the event too.

Starting from 1st February 2012 to 15th February 2012, Confirm Trading will be asking a question about Bijinsenmon every day. What you need to do is to like Confirm Trading facebook fan page and answer all the 15 questions correctly to stand a chance to win 1 pair of Bijinsenmon Arm Slimming Mask worth $13 SGD. 5 pairs to be won in total. :)

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