When it comes to planning surprise for Kk, seriously the chance that “something” happen is just too high. I kinda of prepare myself that “something” will happen again. I was right again as usual but this time was bec my mum fixed an appointment with some sifu bec Kk’s brother called on one night and said ”something” is following Kk. WTF la… Call at wee hours and said this kinda of thing causing kk and me that we dare not off our room lights that night. Kk tried to reject her but my mum just couldn’t hear him so in the end Kk can only say okay.

Since Kk did not tell me first and I got a miss call from my mum, I was very upset actually but I still decided to hold my anger since I don’t think Kk will purposely do things like this.

Before meeting Kk and my mum, I went to icing room….

Decided to look like some good wife DIY-ing cakes so chose the smallest cake because our home fridge is kinda of full of food.

This is the first time I decorate a cake for someone so though it looks kinda of ugly and inconstant but I really put in a lot of effort. Decided to cover some parts of the cake with the flower icing because I really drew too badly.

I was laughing at Kk for bring this back. But after I knew the story, I decided to blog about it too. Thank you, Kk’s site workers for this present. It may really look cheap too many people but do u know, all the workers put in their little money to buy this just for Kk.

Photos stolen from Kk’s site colleague facebook photo. I am really happy for Kk to be so well liked by everyone.

In the end, I did not celebrate his birthday with him at all because I was sick the next day and still sick now. I decided to blog this short entry on his birthday. As for the sifu part, I don’t want to blog it out because it end up to be nothing to be worried about. Those who is close to me should have know about this and I believe this kinda of thing should just keep to myself. But Kk is fine and there is nothing to be afraid or worried about.

Suddenly feeling sentimental and decided to post an entry.

This is the first time I see kk see pissed off. My hubby, kk has really a really high tolerance of shit things and shit people. He is one of the best EQ man, I ever know. People always said, to know how good is the man, see how he drive is one of them. Kk never honk the car unless it is causing a danger to him. If an old man cross the road, he will wait patiently for it to cross before driving.

But today as usual, I called kk to check if he wants to have dinner with me but I heard an unknown tone. A kind of irritated tone that I have never heard before, I was scared and even check if I called the right person. He then told me briefly what happened, I decided to joke around by saying let’s eat Japanese food. He told me that he was not in the mood, it was rare instant that kk rejected me. I guess the work make him really upset.

While eating, the phone rang again. Yes, his site colleague called him saying that the main con wants an investigation meeting. Seriously, even last time when I was still a site engineer, I will ignore such unreasonable request especially when I am having dinner because it spoils my mood of eating. I can feel kk’s anger somehow but having high EQ, he continue his dinner and smile to me that he have to go back to work.

Seriously, my heart ache that instant. I may not show all the emotion to him too because I really do not want him to be worried about me and his site now. I am blogging now because really thinking, being a girlfriend is easy but being a wife is hard. When one is still at girlfriend stage, one do not experience such feelings. I hope I could make him less upset but he is still at work. I know what happen exactly, I used to work in the same field too. It is just a small problem. Some people just is too free and want to prove to its boss that it is working.

Therefore, kind people like Kk will suffer in this working world. On one side, I hope Kk have more time for me, but on the other side, I should let him finished his work peacefully. This is my job as a wife.

Little note: Today is Tim and Audrey’s wedding day. Congrates to them, if u never see their proposal video, I am sure u stay in a cave. I always love watching proposal videos. It reminds me to treasure your other half more.

I have to write a disclaimer first before being misunderstood again. I do not mean Kk is not treating me well or whatever strange things in your mind that say someone torture me. Nothing of this sort ever happen and I happy with my life now too.

I guess I never ever thought that I will type something like this out. I have been trying to control this feeling. Honestly, I really wondered did my parents and brothers ever miss me during my absence from home. I have progress to next part of my life, I know I shouldn’t look back and for the past 25 years, I rarely look back at my life. I do miss the old times with my friends but I always tell myself, life will be even better from now on. Maybe my life is really too perfect, I think it is better now. I miss my life without them, I miss squeezing bed with my brothers, I miss my mum’s food, I miss my dad’s morning call, I miss all the past 25 year’s of my life with them. I guess living with them for 25 years have cultivated some habit and living lifestyle that is hard to change. Kk still complain me of loving my bed and don’t get up on time. This is somehow something I can’t change. I do not need to do housework last time, (Okay, I always tried to escape it) but now I am doing it daily. I am changing myself day by day.

I actually miss my mum on the 2nd day when I was at Hong Kong. Life with Kk is great, he is a great husband and a loving one. However, I never knew the importance of them in the past. I was very independent from young, I know what I am supposed to do and what I am not supposed to do. I come from a not so well off family and my mother is not working so with my dad’s less that 2K income, it is really tight for my mum to manage it. Therefore from young, I know I can never be spoilt and ask for something that belong to a want and not a need. I always thought I do not need them and I always rely on myself.

I thought I will just move on my life just like how I did from young but I was wrong, I really can’t do it. I guess I need time to adapt ba.

I miss my family… I know I can still see them but living with them is no longer possible. I have to move on… Fighting!!

I am still trying to adapt my married life. Maybe I sound fake but I do enjoy do housework but maybe because I am only cleaning my room and toilet only. I wash my own toilet last week, I am proud of myself honestly. Actually at my parent’s place, I don’t do any form of housework because I got a mum who has her own way to do so I figured out to let her do what she want. It is hard to keep up with her standard.

However, when I clean my own room and toilet, I must say I like doing it to some extend. Even though I hoped that I do not need to study at times so that I won’t be so tired doing these chores. I bought from gmarket. (now known as Qoo10) some 3M toilet cleaning accessories.

I was doing some online reseach on toilet cleaning when I saw 3M brushes. I decided to try it as 3M seems like a reliable brand with products. The items just reached me like yesterday, I am going to test it out maybe next week.

I must admit I am indeed surprise when I see this parcel. This is the first time I see this kinda of wrapper. I guess the Korean really do have better packaging skill then us.

See how tightly it is wrapped with ample of bubble wrapped.

The things I bought!~ 3M Clean Stick Startkit™/ Toilet Cleaner Stick/ FLOOR SCRUBBER / Switchable Shower Bath

I have not start using it but I do like the idea that the brushes and the scrub can be changed. It is good for the environment. It sure cost more than normal brushes. The total cost of the above item cost about S$40. I do look forward to using that but if it is not comfortable, I might just get back to using my Daiso bathroom brushes.

Decided to do a blog entry of my room! We did not an chuan because the room/bed will be only up to November this year so no point to an chuan. This room is initially Kk’s room if we were to get married last year but later his 2nd brother for married before him and become his room. So when I was getting married, we did talked about getting this room back and his mum also think that we shall stay in that room. But anyway, we decided to just repaint it again to have a new feel of the room.

 Kk is repainting the celling of the room as it looks kinda of grey.

But before that, I went for a shopping at Ikea to buy some furniture for my new room. Furniture sure are some funny thing, those that look heavy are light but those that look light are heavy. Initially, I thought all the stuff can fit in the small trolley but it turn up I still need the big one. But one small tip to do when you are at Ikea, dine in first. This is because you will get a S$5 voucher with every spending of S$30 there. Plus shopping at Ikea take time as there are really a lot of things to buy there, it is not worth to starve and shop as you will still need to carry your furniture back to your home after the shopping.

 My mini haul from Ikea.

Then Kk and I fix the things ourselves. I must really say, this is my first time doing these things. I am really not good in these kinda of thing but I still manage to fix one of the black drawer on my own. The rest of the job is done by Kk. Sometimes this is why man are needed in life. Woman can do them but might take some time to do them.

 Seriously, you don’t get to see me touch this handy craft things. Especially me in my un-matching home clothes (These are the only clothes I have because I did not bring much clothing from my home)

 So I shall post another of my unglam photo.

 I have to say, I am so proud of my husband and myself. I come out with the design and Kk helped out with the fixing of the stuff together.

Add on: Kk bought me a 3M light for my studies as he said lighting is something that cannot be save. He don’t want my shortsightedness to get worst. Therefore even though the light really is not cheap, he still bought it for me.

 one of the black drawer cupboard is done by me. I am so proud of myself.

I too like the pink drawer, it brings so contrast to the cupboard which was initially supposed to be black drawer and cupboard but the black one is OOS so I changed to this pink cupboard last min.

You may have see the final of my room in my previous blog post. Do let me to explain myself with regards to the bed. I bought a super expensive bed sheet from IMM. I must agree that I really have no idea of the price of the bedsheet set and quilt. In addition to that, our bed base is made up of 2 single bed from the owner. They have no place to keep them so end up, we used it as our base, sorry for the unglam base if u mind.

Seriously, I am happy to blog this entry despite the fact, I did not plan an entry on my room before that. I guess I am blogging lesser beauty nowadays but do be patient with me to clear all outstanding post first. I tend to use a lot of time to blog and inspiration don’t come often like now.